As I said last week, I told Angie we could pay her dad back next week which would be this week. She told her dad we would pay her back this week which at the time she said it would be last week. I don’t know what she was thinking. I was at complete loss for what I was supposed to do. She ended up telling me she was going to ask him to take care of the money for her dad but would then need tell him everything that has been going on and would be meeting with him in an hour. I spent a good amount of time praying for an answer to this problem and one came to me. I was able to link my AM EX card to my paypal account and then transfer the 480.00 to her with 20 minutes to spare. Now I can pay myself back this week like I was going to for her dad.

Angie decided to get an apartment. I said I would help with the payments, not pay, help with the payments. When she told me she was going to do this soon I told her OK but keep me informed. Well, after the fiasco on Easter where she wanted money for presents then over spent, got mad when I did not replace the over spent money immediately. A couple days later her alternator went out and we needed to purchase a new one for 250.00 and have it installed for another 200.00. That would be 550.00 for Easter and 450.00 or 1000.00 between the two. Then she turns around and says she needs money for her apartment but does not tell me what she needs and during all of this time she has never told me where the apartment is going to be, how much the rent will be, in other words she has not an anytime kept me informed of anything. Now she is mad I don’t have the 400.00 for a deposit, 150.00 to transfer the electricity and them 480.00 for rent. I was able to come up with the 550.00 for her (deposit and electricity), the 480.00 rent I have no idea where that will come from. She said something about asking her dad but I don’t know about that. We can pay him back next week but this next couple months will now be really tight. I don’t have a problem if I don’t have to pay out the extra 800.00/month have been giving her and Andy. Time will tell what I am to do next.

It was an entirely great week last. I took Monday and Tuesday off and Angie called me at work Friday. I surprised the heck out of her by answering the phone. I used to ignore any calls I get from family or friends while at work but from now on I do not ignore her calls (unless I am in a meeting or the bathroom). I talked to her in the after noon on Friday after I got home.

Now yesterday I received a really strange message. It said “Is there anyway Andy needs 45.00 today is there anyway. You will have to text my husband is almost here he called and said he was coming up for something”

I’ll need to ask her about it because there is absolutely no way I will ever text him and I will never acknowledge him as her husband and I do not us that last name unless it is absolutely necessary. My thoughts are she was missing some periods and or commas in the sentence structure, I’m hoping that is the case anyway.

She was up to her old tricks again this week. Getting pissed off for really no reason, tried to break it off. I just relaxed, explained certain things and told her to go back and read the messages.

She thought I was ignoring her when she told me she was short at the store and needed to dip into money for Andy’s rent and money she needed to apply for an apartment on Monday. I didn’t react immediately and send her money because I figured I could do it in the morning. Because I did not do it right then she thought I was taking the stance that it was not my problem, you spent money you didn’t have so deal with it. That could not be further from the case. After I explained she seems to have calmed down and all seems to be back to normal now.

I really have to watch my actions with her.

I received a text from Angie at 2:00 am on Wednesday morning telling me she is not going to wait 6 months but needs to get things done one and a time and wants everything done legally. This means me paying for her apartment or storage until she gets the apartment. Probably her internet and extras as well.

We spoke on Thursday which was really nice and again on Saturday when I paid for her internet to be turned back on.

Things are going to work out but I just need to have patience and quit letting my mind wander off into stupid land like it was for a while.

She is now staying with him, I do not like this, I don’t get to talk to her very much but at the present I am still ok with this six months of hell.

Another six months of Angie being married. I thought the six months was to start when he asked her to give him six months. Not six months after she moves in with him. She will be out of cell service areas, I won’t be able to talk to her, damn this is going to be hard to deal with.

I thought it would be done when my birthday rolled around. Now it’s a month and a half later.

Lord please help us make it through this.

Angie told me last night she found a car she wants which is fine but I need to save up for expenses like that and she won’t be happy with me tonight when I tell her not so fast. These types of expenses need planning and then I have to incorporate them into my budget etc. I think she will understand but she will not be happy at first.

I do love her very much.

Edit: I did give her the extra money she needed for the car. Andy gave her 1500.00 he said was for me but I said I did not need it. The car was only 750.00 more to I gave it to her. With the notation what I would be able to give her anymore money for quite a while and she was ok with that.

Last week was a great week for communication between Angie and me. There were no fights, she got to play three card poker for Valentines day just like she asked. I was able to send Andy the 1500.00 for the truck he wanted and started paying off his other debt. I talked to her Friday night and I may have pinged her too much on Saturday but she called and asked a simple question. She is going to tell the idiot that her dad bought her the phone that I did and wanted to know if I wanted the number to stay on the phone or place it on the broken phone. All I said was I would prefer her to leave the number on the phone I purchased but she can do whatever she wants. Her response was, ‘I will do what you prefer I do’. She left it at that, even after I reiterated that she can do what she wants she said, no ‘I’ll do what you want’. This simple statement she made along with the tone of her voice during our entire conversation was so much like we used to be.

Love you Angie….