This weekend was not a good one for my relationship with Angie. She made a comment the other day about cutting her short in my weekly allowance to her. I told her that I did not cut her short, Andy’s debt was paid off and I did not need to send that 100.00 anymore. Her comment was that she counted on that money and is why she was short.
I made the statement that she should never have been counting on money that was never hers. I had specifically asked her if he was getting the money for Andy’s debt and she said yes every time. It turns out that she can’t give the money to Andy to give to him because Andy won’t have anything to do with him. She tried to give it to him for Andy and he said ‘keep it in case you need anything’. She did not tell me this any of the times I asked if he was getting paid. I stopped asking her when she got pissed at me for asking all the time. When I stopped asking I told myself to let it go and trust her.
Should I have trusted her? No, it turns out she never gave him a dime of Andy’s debt money. I asked if he told her to keep it all 24 times I sent a 100.00 payment and she did not answer that. She thinks the spreadsheet I sent proves that I paid Andy’s debt. I say no darlin, that only proves that I made payments, not that he received any of them. Actually the only proof I have is the PayPal statements showing I sent the money. There still is no proof of payment to him. This was one of the requirements that he made in order for her to get her divorce.
Friday I made the statement that she lied and stole from me. Lied about making payments and spent money what was not hers to spend. I said I feel like walking away right now but I at least want an explanation.
That is when she told me about Andy and that he wanted nothing to do with him and that he said to keep the money. I may have been a little too harsh in my comments but in the end she said I don’t have to walk away, she was walking away and to never contact her again.
She did call, we talked a bit and then she hung up. Don’t really know what she is going to do. I asked her how she is going to pay rent and TV and she said she doesn’t care if she looses everything now because of how I treated her. Well honey, I have done nothing but take care of you for the better part of this entire year. I guess only time will tell what happens. I have been praying for the Lord to help to remove this financial burden she has placed on me by asking me to help her. Well my prayers were answered but I feel very bad about they way it went down.
I want her in my life but unless we are married I don’t feel the obligation to make sure she if financially sound. Sorry if that sounds hard but it is they way I feel right now.
I’ll keep you informed on what is happening. This week will be very telling when I don’t send a payment to her Thursday. I’m betting I’ll get a text asking where her money is.